Love or Fear? Life’s Two Choices How to Tell Which One You Live Your Life By

Is your life happy, are you living it to the fullest? Do you have emotional peace and calm? Do you wake up each morning anticipating the joy of the adventure of the day ahead? Do you feel secure about your future and the future of your loved ones? Can you actually feel a Divine hand upon your life and the warmth of personal guidance? Do you have a sense of purpose? Are you attaining your biggest dreams? If you do not have these things, what is holding you back? You know that you are unique, and have the potential to do much more than you are presently. But, what has been holding you back? This is nothing you can blame on your job, your family, your mate, your level of education or social standing. This is placed square on your own shoulders and influences every day of your life, which has a ripple effect on every day after it. Let’s look closer at life’s two choices and honestly see which one you are living your life by, and why.

There are only two choices in life. Love or the opposite of love; and the opposite of love is not hate, but fear. Love always moves us forward, fear stagnates and freezes us. This is a simple yardstick to help us recognize any place of stagnation in our lives and to make new choices. When we see what has been the true motivating factor behind our decisions, it gives us the power to change things and make it better. And something else takes place. When we consistently choose love over fear, an incredible transformation occurs around us, because light and darkness can’t be in the same place together. They simply cannot exist jointly as one; they are of two different natures. So when we make choices governed by love, a great shifting occurs in our lives, for the better. And conversely, where we see any stagnation in our lives, we will find that was a place where our initial choices were made out of fear, and that no forward movement occurs there, or is very slow and tedious.

What is a choice for love? Let’s say you are looking for a job. There is a job listing for your dream job – you would be doing something that you’ve always wanted to, and even getting paid for it. But the pay is weak, and you are afraid it wouldn’t be enough, and there is no guarantee to know if and when the pay would go up. So you continue to look and find a job listing that will give you above the pay you want, but the hours and location are all wrong, and the job itself is just a job, nothing to be really excited about. Now which one are you going to circle? If your main motivation is fear, you are going to stagnate in a job you don’t like, that no amount of money can make up for. Whereas if you choose the job you love, your joy will be shining through not only in your home life but in your job too. And in an employer’s eyes, who would be more likely to get a raise, the person who tolerates their job or the one who is actually happy to be there? Also, on the spiritual side, God looks to bless those who bravely step out in faith, and all kinds of wonderful and not-so-coincidental opportunities come from that.

With every choice that we make for love, we move ahead on our journey and become brighter. And if darkness tries to move toward light, it either has to transform into light to be near us, or move away even to exist. Nothing harmful is able to stay near us. Nothing. Think of it this way, when we bring a lit candle into a darkened room, look what happens to the room - the entire area transforms, and the area closest to the flame is the brightest. Now, do we have to be afraid that the darkness will overwhelm and put out the candle? No, it doesn’t matter how dark the room is, the darkness can never put out the candle. But, the candle can put itself out. In human terms, this happens when we buy into the ideas of unworthiness, separation and doubt, the ugliness that the darkness tries to convince us that we are part of. But we are not of the darkness, we were created of light, and when we remember this our flame will never go out. It does not matter what darkness tries to imply or manipulate us into thinking. We were created of light and love. And when we remember our true nature it doesn’t matter if we are accepted or rejected by others, because we remember who we are in the eyes of God, at a spirit level. That is where that desire for acceptance and oneness comes from, because we have felt it before we were born, and we want to experience it again, even while we are doing silly human things. Knowing yourself, remembering who you are, is about remembering you are Divinely created, accepted and unconditionally loved every moment of every day.

When we always choose love, it creates a great and vibrant shift around us in our jobs, relationships, even in our personal health. As we have seen, everything has to be positive and loving to be near us or it has to transform or move away. And since our physical health cannot move away from us, every time we make a choice motivated by love we make a choice for good health. Perhaps you have heard of spiritually adept people throughout the world who have exceptionally vibrant and healthy lives well into old age – now you know one reason why.

So how have you been making your life choices? What kind of child were you in elementary school? What about high school? Do you hate some of the memories that come up? Do you blame other people for things that happened to you? Your parents, teachers, friends or bullies? And are you still blaming people now? No matter what choices other people make and what part of their ripple effect we have been in, we can choose to love, forgive, survive, grow and thrive. And we can choose the ripple effect of our own choices to be better than those we have formerly been a part of. When we do this, an active transformation takes place, which is another part of the multi-facets of love. Blame, hate, unforgiveness – all of the negative emotions – are all part of fear. “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” (1 John 4:18)

When we always choose love, we actively choose our God-given birthright to how our lives are supposed to be, and we feel this deeply in our soul. It is our true and full potential to embrace loving and long-term relationships, financial abundance, and effervescent physical and mental health. With the expanded clarity that comes from advancing in love, we can also more easily identify further opportunities of light around us. This helps us make better decisions by recognizing the Divine interventions of love placed before us, choosing these, and then fully following through with them.

Now in regard to everything else, we must realize that the shifting around us that happens when we always choose love can be initially difficult to witness. Yet, it is for our soul’s greater and highest good, and all those connected with us. When we discern this, it helps us trust and accept the changes taking place. Love is always the better way. That is why trust, bravery and faith is essential to advance forward in love, for fear limits our ability to allow or follow through with changes. Making new choices of love may mean leaving behind our old job, old friends or relationships. Often we yearn for how things should be, and not what they actually were. Many times people stay in situations that are not good for them simply because it is familiar, not because it is good for them. Trusting in love helps us actively step outside of our comfort zone onto new, higher ground. That new ground is where the new world awaits, with new opportunities; and like any explorer traveling to new lands, faith is needed to leave the old things behind. “Faith is being sure of what we hope for, and certain of what we do not see.” (Hebrews 11:1)

In that new world that we find ourselves in, we also find that we are a new person as well, a joyous and more connected and loving one. And we will never find ourselves alone. Our relationships, jobs and everything else around us will be brighter and healthier for us too, for we actively discern the healthier opportunities placed before us – and better yet, even follow through on taking them. And as we continue to expand in light, we become more aware of living a joyous life fully guided by love, and the larger positive ripple effect our interactions have with others. We become aware of our spiritual need. We become aware of prayer. And we become aware that much of what we might have been traditionally taught doesn’t ring true with the essence of our spirit anymore. What then? When you know Love, you know the heart of God. So, like so many saints, philosophers and poets before you, you may be mocked or even persecuted for having your own ideas about love, but if you fearlessly keep yourself on the path of love, nothing thrown at you will matter at all. Plus, your inner peace and confidence will grow, because “God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him.” (1 John 4:16)

The Divine Decrees

Book 1 - The Unification Act

(1) I Decree as a Spirit of God, born as a child of man, full alignment, communication and unity of this soul’s Holy Prayers and Holy Intentions with God, The Word of God, The Holy Spirit, The Holy Ones, Guides assigned, All Holy Angels assigned (and my husband/wife and those under my care). By free will I agree to receive and connect with Love to strengthen Love, choose the way of Love, encourage Love and expand Love wherever it may be found, whenever it may be found, in whatever amount it may be found throughout all creation that has been formed, is being formed and will be formed.

(2) I Decree full authority and free will interaction to All Holy Angels assigned to utilize the indent of this soul through all interactions past, present and future to continue the experience and expansion of the Love of God.

(3) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the One King of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by the order of the Unification Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: Falling snow, blanketing everything.

Color: White

Duration: 5 days. Repeat the Unification Act again at the end of 5 days).




Book 2 - The Arrival Act

(4) I Decree as a Spirit of God, born as a child of man, full trust and opportunity to allow my soul or spirit to manifest and aid as needed in any past, present and future event of God’s Love. By free will I accept full escort and call in All Holy Angels assigned to render harmless any unHoly indent while interacting in the body or in the spirit, granting safe passage to this soul and any guides assigned as well. By free will I accept and ask for transformation of any gift or material made by man or substance of creation darkened by unHoly intentions or manipulations and

(5) I Decree a cleansing of these through All Holy Angels assigned including a purification and bringing back the perfect creation within agreed parameters of interaction of the creations of the children of man to the fullness of potential made.

(6) I Decree full authority and free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to protect any and all methods of communication, interaction and information devices from manipulations and unHoly intentions, including any present methods and future methods and inventions.

(7) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present and future events until the King of All Dimensions in the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Arrival Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: The sun coming up over the horizon, going overhead and then the sun going down on the other side.

Color: Yellow

Duration: 5 days. Repeat the entire Arrival Act again at the end of 5 days).




Book 3 - The Transformation Act

(8) I Decree as a Spirit of God, born as a child of man, full healing of this soul, spirit, body and mind by full alignment of the will of God and man by the receiving of wholeness and wellness in perfection, within the present parameters set by the original choices of man and agreed upon purpose and commission for this life. By free will I offer my faith and trust, in the power and Love of God as an indent for healing, for All Holy Angels assigned to offer aid of healing of the soul, spirit, body and mind to any and all of the children of man whenever they may call out to God for healing, knowing this will occur within the present parameters set by the original choices of man and agreed upon purpose and commission for these lives, and within the present parameters of the interaction of indents.

(9) I Decree full authority and free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to manifest additional opportunities and to aid these souls to recognize all choices of Love and healing and to choose without manipulations or unHoly intentions.

(10) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the King of Re-Creation of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Transformation Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: Old becoming young, deformed and bent standing straight and full, flowers going from bud to full bloom.

Color: Orange
Duration: 5 Days. Repeat the entire Transformation Act again at the end of 5 days).




Book 4 - The Protection Act

(11) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man full protection of this soul, spirit, body and mind (and that of my husband/wife and those under my care) and all attending delegates by giving full authority and free will interaction to All Holy Angels assigned to render harmless any and all manipulations or unHoly intentions sent toward us.

(12) I Decree as welcome and valid all methods and signs approved by God and conducive to the further allowance of the veil, including full awareness of my spirit and any and all interactions of the human senses or God-given gifts to aid alignment with messages and power and action needed and made available through All Holy Angels assigned, guides assigned, and empowerment given to the faithful and aware children of man through all Divine Decrees and the Twelve Books of Acts of the Love of God.

(13) I Decree this soul’s free will ability to call in All Holy Angels assigned and grant full authority and free will interaction to defend, battle, attack and render harmless as needed and to aid guides assigned and all Holy Ones with containment of all manipulations and unHoly intentions sent.

(14) I Decree this soul’s free will choice of asking for greater faith, trust and discernment of what my interaction is in every event and opportunity and utilizing this soul’s abilities and God-given gifts when asked and in the parameters suggested and at the times recommended through all Divine Decrees and the Twelve Books of Acts of the Love of God

(15) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the Warrior Son of the Kingdom of God and His Holy Army assumes full authority by order of the Protection Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: Warrior Angels encircling and the sound of marching and shouting in unison.
Color: Red
Duration: 5 days. Repeat the entire Protection Act again at the end of 5 days).




Book 5 - The Forgiveness Act

(16) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man full forgiveness to all children of man who have harmed or intentioned to harm this soul (my husband/wife and those under my care). By free will I ask God for forgiveness and to erase and cleanse any indent of harm or intention to harm from this soul toward myself and all other children of man, attending delegates, the earth and all living creation in relationship to man, and any and all transgressions toward God, God’s Word, The Holy Spirit, All Angels, Guides, the Holy Ones and all Spirit Beings, and I send Holy Prayers and Holy Intentions to all.

(17) I Decree full authority and free will interaction to All Holy Angels assigned to aid awareness of any and all opportunities where Love can be expanded by forgiveness in past or present events. By free will I agree with the continuing redemption of unHoly Angels as offered by the Love of God and stand as a representative of redeemed mankind accepted into unification and light once more and in this capacity and by the example of the Love of God, I grant forgiveness to all unHoly ones who have requested and gained forgiveness from God for their manipulations toward this soul (my husband/wife and those in my care).

(18) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the Mighty Counselor of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Forgiveness Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: One who is on their knees is tapped on the shoulder and asked to stand.
Color: Brown
Duration:10 days. The entire Forgiveness Act is to be repeated again at the end of 10 days).



Book 6 - The Abundance Act

(19) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man full ability to attain and maintain abundance in all things beneficial to this soul (my husband/wife and those under my care) and

(20) I Decree full authority and free will interaction to All Holy Angels assigned to render harmless any and all manipulations or unHoly intentions toward health, finances or relationships and for expanded awareness of any and all points of damage or potential damage where conscious or unconscious choices need to be transformed and healed. I acknowledge this soul’s birthright as a Spirit of God and my redemption as a child of man to live each day in full abundance and expansion of Love with God, one another and myself to the full potential of understanding and experiencing of Love this soul has been, is presently and will be accomplishing, including giving and receiving, and acceptance, gratitude and application of gifts and abilities.

(21) I Decree this soul’s free will to share abundance with all children of man in whatever way it is most needed and is most efficient and beneficial and

(22) I Decree All Holy Angels assigned to aid in this recognition and completion through free will interaction and full authority and to render harmless any and all manipulations or unHoly intentions sent to impede this.

(23) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the King of the Over-Flowing Cup of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Abundance Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: Sounds of coins, the smell of fresh bread and a vision of golden fields of wheat that never end.
Color: Green
Duration: 7 days. The entire Abundance Act is to be repeated again at the end of 7 days).




Book 7 - The Purification Act

(24) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man full cleansing of the air, water and land and all living creation in relationship to man and the earth through free will acceptance and interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to render harmless any and all manipulations or unHoly intentions including rendering harmless any and all harmful choices made by the conscious or unconscious mind of the children of man.

(25) I Decree full authority and free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to purify and sanctify any and all movements of elements beyond normal measures and to return all unHoly manipulations to the original parameters as first ordained by The Word of God, including peaceful and respectful interaction of man within the environment and man’s transformation and balance of good and natural for all living creation in relationship to man and the earth in God’s perfect plan of perpetual abundance as first ordained and commissioned.

(26) I Decree the full authority of All Holy Angels assigned to aid remembrance and giving of additional opportunities to all children of man to elicit gentleness, awareness and peaceable actions toward the air, water and land and all living creation in relationship to man and the earth.

(27) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the fullness of the shift of transformation arrives and The Master Caretaker of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by the order of the Purification Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: A cloud forming a raindrop, falling onto Earth which then turns from brown to green and full.
Color: Blue
Duration: 10 days. Repeat the entire Purification Act again at the end of 10 days).




Book 8 - The Awareness Act

(28) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man full ability of discernment between Holy and unHoly.

By free will,

(29) I Decree Guides assigned and All Holy Angels assigned full access, ability and free will interaction to consistently communicate with this soul in a manner conducive to the allowance of the veil and the full potential of connection allowed at the present time of understanding. By free will this soul asks for additional opportunities of awareness of conscious or unconscious choices of cause and effect even before any decision or action is made, and clear discernment and ability to choose without manipulations or unHoly intentions sent toward this soul.

(30) I Decree this souls free will ability to immediately recognize and call in all Holy Angels assigned in all potential events of protection or harm to this soul (or to my husband/wife and those under my care) and for continuing expansion of awareness and acting in accordance with Holy signs and wonders and God-given methods of interaction and aiding personal connection, amplification, frequency and brightening of prayer.

(31) I Decree this soul’s free will to remember and act upon God’s will and agreed-upon purpose and commission for this life and to easily recognize all God-given opportunities and realizations, and to resist opportunities for unHoly actions and turn away from unHoly manifestations and to act without doubt, hesitation or fear upon every God-given opportunity and transform dark to light, and fear to Love and I ask Guides assigned and All Holy Angels assigned in assisting this soul with this, and assisting all children of man to full faith and trust in God and His Word.

(32) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the veil is fully lifted and the Holy One of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Awareness Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: A supernova expansion, starburst in the sky, a light turned on in the darkness
Color: Purple
Duration: 7 days. Repeat the entire Awareness act again at the end of 7 days).



Book 9 - The Representation Act

(33) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man this soul’s free will Holy Prayers and Holy Intentions that all those in designations of authority and divisions of government act for the betterment of the children of man.

(34) I Decree full authority and free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to render harmless any and all manipulations or unHoly intentions sent toward these representatives, and I further ask for additional opportunities of awareness of conscious or unconscious choices of cause and effect for each decision and action where it impacts the children of man and all living creation in relationship to man, by free will this soul asks for the consistent free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to expand the justice, support and protection for those under the greatest attack and to give additional opportunities to each representative to elicit peace and harmony between all people and nations, to assist with abundance for any and all in need, and to enact any and all laws and policies that will only benefit and serve the people in the highest good as a reflection of the recognition of the sovereignty of the God of Love and His justice, mercy, support and protection.

(35) I Decree full authority and free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to aid the protection of all children and any and all vulnerable children of man who are in need in body, mind, soul and spirit and rendering harmless any and all manipulations or unHoly intentions sent toward these vulnerable ones, and giving them additional opportunities to communicate with God, The Holy Ones, their Guides assigned and one another without restraint or fear.

(36) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the King of Kings and True Ruler of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Representation Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: A pebble being cast into a pond, the ripples going out to distant shores.
Color: Black
Duration:10 days. Repeat the entire Representation Act again at the end of 10 days).




Book 10 - The Salvation Act

(37) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man full surrender of my spirit and all attending delegates to the sanctity of baptism of Blood and Water, and I acknowledge that which was created pure became unclean unto itself, and was made clean and Holy once more by the Redemption of Grace, and through this Grace this soul stands in the light once more, and darkness has no authority.

(38) I Decree by free will my bending of knee in humility and spirit aligned with the Spirit and Will of God, now and through timelessness.

(39) I Decree by free will my full awareness of the original issues and I offer this soul’s testimony to the rightness and truth of God’s right to rule over His creation and that it has not been possible for the sons of man to successfully choose for themselves what is right or wrong and that the children of man call for the interaction of God and continue to seek for God and desire to learn and accomplish God’s will even when manipulations occur to their body’s destruction or when their soul is not satisfied by gifts.

(40) I Decree by free will the complete fullness of Love even in suffering by the Son of God’s Love, as testified to and witnessed in the life of His Life, Death and Life Again while maintaining fullness of purity and rebuking darkness, thereby breaking the bondage upon pure creation forevermore and freeing this soul and all children of man to continue the experience and expansion of Love. I receive by free will my birthright as a Child of God created by Love, in Love and for Love.

(41) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present and future events until the Savior of the World and King of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Salvation Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: Golden light falling like raindrops from Heaven, covering all, body levitating on gold light, lifting to God.
Color: Gold
Duration: 7 days. Repeat the entire Salvation Act again at the end of 7 days).




Book 11 - The Hierarchy Act

(42) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man this soul’s free will Holy Prayers and Holy Intentions that all those in designations of sacred office and Holy Orders by vows given before God remain faithful and true in submission and humility for the consistent disbursement of acts of ministry to children of man as though ministering to God.

(43) I Decree full authority and free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to render harmless any and all manipulations or unHoly intentions sent toward these servants, and I further ask for additional opportunities of awareness of conscious or unconscious choices of cause and effect for each decision and action where it impacts the spirit and soul of the children of man and their delegates and all living creation in relationship to man. By free will this soul asks for the consistent free will interaction of All Holy Angels assigned to expand the houses of prayer and fellowship to all children of man throughout all the nations, granting Divine guidance, protection and discernment in teaching and reaching the hearts of man through Love and unification of those Holy in reflection of the Love of God and the magnification and sanctification of the fullness of the Name of God.

(44) I Decree this soul’s free will Holy Prayers and Holy Intentions for all religions and faiths to serve as ambassadors of peace and unity under One God of Love, and that all these may shelter, feed, nurture, encourage, counsel, protect, defend, guide and give service by God’s Words and Authority and not their own.

(45) I Decree this as binding on earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events until the Anointed High Priest of the Kingdom of God assumes full authority by order of the Hierarchy Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: Succession of shepherd’s staff being given from one to the other from God, through mankind and mankind giving it back to God, row of hundreds of people.
Color: Silver
Duration: 10 days. Repeat the entire Hierarchy Act at the end of 10 days).




Book 12 - The Rainbow Act

(46) I Decree as a Spirit of God born as a child of man full agreement and free will alignment to the completion and fulfillment of the Will of God as originally ordained, including the perfection of the children of man and all living creation in relationship to man and the earth, including the air, water and land.

(47) I Decree this soul’s full agreement and free will alignment of full unity and communication through sacred interactions and sharing of experiences of Love’s expansion and validation of answered questions in the Original Issues of the Sovereignty of God’s Love over this soul and all creation as was commissioned and comes to be in perfect fruition.

(48) I Decree this soul’s full agreement and free will alignment of the end and fulfillment of time and the never-ending expansion of timelessness and the full availability of mobility, unity, communication and interaction between all Spirit Beings and creations of the Love of God.

(49) I Decree this soul’s full agreement and free will alignment to utilize all Divine Decrees and the Twelve Books of Acts of the Love of God to ease the manipulations and unHoly intentions toward the children of man during the end of time and the shift into timelessness, and to call in All Holy Angels assigned and give full authority and free will interaction to render harmless these manipulations and unHoly intentions toward this soul (and that of my husband/wife and those under my care) and to transform any unnatural manifestations and to purify and sanctify any and all movements of elements beyond normal measures and decommission, bind and encapsulate all unHoly until the fulfillment of the Word of God is satisfied through the Warrior Son and His Holy Army.

(50) I Decree this as Binding on Earth as it is in Heaven by the alignment of the Will of God and man, bridging all past, present or future events, and the Prince of Peace of the Kingdom of God and His Holy Army will assume full authority and triumph victorious and return timelessness and rightful sovereignty of the Kingdom of God by the order of the Rainbow Act as ordained by the Blood of the Covenant as witnessed and given through the Holy Spirit by the Love of God, Amen.

(Visualization: Arrows like comets racing across the sky, all heading to a purified and sparkling Earth. The sound of myriads of Angels singing.

Colors: All the colors of the previous 11 Acts: white, yellow, orange, red, brown, green, blue, purple, black, gold, silver in a beautiful rainbow!
Duration:12 days. Repeat the entire Rainbow Act at the end of 12 days).

Pornography and Masturbation: How can it hurt?

Does pornography really hurt anyone? If a person just views it in the privacy of their own home, how can it harm? Does it add to a relationship like some have said? What about masturbation? Especially if a person is single, isn’t it better to satisfy needs this way than going out on the town? Really, what’s the big deal?

The body is a blessing, not a curse – and it is made to receive information about our world and one another through its feelings, thoughts and senses. In fact, much of what we do in these bodies helps us recognize our gifts and purposes in life, and helps us connect with one another, with love and with God. And it is the body that contains the spirit, like electricity wired into a house. We are created by God in love, by love and for love. We all face the issues that come with having a body, namely the yearning and the longing we have to express intimacy and feel release. It is one of the three major balances in life – physical, emotional and spiritual health - which helps us stay connected to being human while actively accomplishing our purpose and pursuing spiritual things. All throughout history we see how if one of these balances is missing, major problems arise in a person’s life, often with disastrous consequences. Lack of maintaining balance habitually results in lack of discernment, a spinning out of control, and unhappiness.

We were blessed with the ability to recognize beauty in all its forms, and some say observing pornography is just as innocent as that. We recognize the glory of creation in nature; a majestic sunset, a purifying rain, a gentle breeze, a magnificent rainbow. But we are also built to recognize it in humans, and this is why people throughout history people have respected a beautiful body - seeing the ideal of how we were created to be, healthy and fit. Although modified versions of what is considered most beautiful may change slightly over the years, we have thousands of examples available to us in art, sports and in daily life. It is not the recognition of beautiful bodies that is a problem; it is something else much deeper that causes harm in pornography and masturbation.

There is a bigger picture behind what happens during orgasm than many people know. And this is the secret of why we crave it and want more of it. The moment of orgasm is not just a physical release of the body – it is an instant of intermingling and release of your spirit and the person’s spirit you are with (whether both achieve orgasm or not), and it connects you to the Spirit of God too. For a moment our spirit is at one, at peace, is fully accepted, complete, and unconditionally loved. Orgasm is a place where our spirit literally visits God. Why wouldn’t we want more of it? It is built into our DNA code for more than physically making babies – it literally is a place of receiving and giving love. It is touching the Divine place within us and within one another, and Divine Love himself.

And that is where one of the problems occur. We were not created to keep ourselves isolated from one another. Experiencing orgasm alone creates a two way connection between the person’s spirit and the Spirit of God, but misses out on the completeness it was made for in sharing with another human soul. So the more a person masturbates, the more it escalates a feeling of being separate, alone and empty, whether they are in a relationship or not. This can ripple out to more problems, and a turning inward and shutting down instead of facing challenges of attaining and maintaining healthy relationships and communication. When we feel cut off from others, feelings of unworthiness and depression readily surface and can affect all other places of our lives – our work performance, our parenting skills, etc.

Another reason why problems occur with pornography and masturbation is because it can generate feelings that damage the shield of free will. When we get holes in the shield we get attacked through them by demons, which desire to manipulate and destroy physical health, relationships and finances. When free will is breached, it is like having a nagging voice constantly whispering negative things in our mind. For example: we will never have long-term loving relationships, never accomplish the dreams and goals in our heart, never have full physical health or abundance, that we will always have to watch for the next shoe to drop, etc. This creates a war in our hearts, because we know in our spirit that these things are not really how we want to feel or live our lives - we were created to have happy, healthy lives full of abundance in all good things. Keep in mind that this negative voice is not you; it is a trick, a lie. And you can shut it down, heal any injured or manipulated areas, and have peace and joy again by doing special Deliverance prayers; these help heal the holes and get off anything on you that is not of light and love.

The issue of humanity, sexuality and creation has been of interest since the beginning of time. One of the big differences between mankind and Angels is the ability to procreate. In fact, when a couple enters into making love, a bright bubble encapsulates them that makes a sacred space where none of the Angels or any other spirit beings can see. It truly is a time of connection between humans and God. This special attention (including the gift of procreation) is one of the egotistical issues that some of the Angels had with God and humanity, and Angels left their position in heaven about this, thus making themselves unHoly Angels or demons (read more on the website in All About Angels – The Good and Bad of It All)

It is also the reason for the constant barrage of over-emphasis on the body and lust in the media, magazines, television shows, movies, and emails to the point where what was once objectionable has now become commonplace and frequently overlooked. It is a brainwashing that we will only be loved if we are thin, rich and young forever. It is precisely this entrenchment in our everyday life that makes pornography even more dangerous because people fail to see the danger and leave themselves vulnerable to attack. We are asked to be on guard to pay attention and be aware that we not fall prey to manipulation. “Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.” (1Corinthians 16:13) We must be sharp in recognizing what is helpful and what is harmful. We are asked to have discernment and recognize the things that are of love and God, and what are not. It has nothing to do with what is popular or accepted by others or not. Poison is always harmful, no matter what form it may take.

Pornography is a manipulation of our natural desires, a perversion. This is far from what God had intended. When a person willingly views pornography they have opened the door for manipulation of natural desires; it now becomes like a distorted version of an exquisite painting. Where once there was beauty, now all we see is brushes, canvas and paint – all we see is the fundamentals and basics, and we lose all perception of true art and vision that the painting’s creator wanted you to see. It is the same thing by taking the gift of making love and the beauty of the human body and debasing it to the point of centering only on torsos and genitalia. It is a form of idolatry for it places more emphasis on the creation rather than the creator. It is a dangerous pitfall that begins with the violation of the gift from God and can end with the degradation of a person to such a point that a person viewing pornography no longer sees the person in the images as a person but rather they become an object. Whenever anyone is marginalized and separated, destruction soon follows. Pornography harms everyone it touches - those who make it, distribute it, show it and view it. Even children, the innocents, are used for profit.

Pornography also causes problems within relationships. It sets up perceptions of how a person should look or act to enjoy sex, and can create feelings of inadequacy or of “missing out” if they are not looking or feeling the same way. Many have separated over issues dealing with pornography much to the delight of the unHoly Angels. Worse yet, many have sought to carry out disturbing actions they have seen by seeking out others with the objective of trying out degrading and detestable acts of perversion. This destroys what was created to be a sacred place for a couple.

The tendency for pornography and masturbation to become addictions becomes a further pitfall. Like any addiction more and more is needed to meet the level of desired satisfaction. What someone may think is only slightly wrong, something to be hidden from family or friends, grows into a larger problem as it implants more and more depraved images into the mind. People become used to the objectification of themselves and others and no longer see it as an evil but rather seek out additional and increasingly corrupt images and false interactions. The emptiness and injury that occurs to individuals, to couples and to relationships is profound and affect us at our very core. It is the shield of our free will that has been damaged and we have the ability to ask God for assistance in healing it. God can step in and break this cycle of addiction and perversion through a specialty prayer called a Deliverance prayer (Deliverance prayer included in the article Are You Being Attacked? Deliverance and Exorcism at TiffanySnow.com) We can also monitor our thoughts and move away from situations that stimulate unwanted thoughts. We can choose to see sex as part of the whole of relationships and not the only reason to come together. We can remind ourselves we are barraged by social and media influences that is targeted to manipulate how we view our bodies and those of others. We can choose to think for ourselves again, and make love how we and our mate choose to in the natural flow of being together.

God does not desire us to have so many struggles with sexuality or with our bodies. The body is a blessing, not a curse – and the instant of orgasm is meant to be a place of union between a man, a woman, and God. It is a gift meant to be unwrapped and fully appreciated, it is not dirty or perverse, but just the opposite. Yet how each of us chooses to handle this gift is up to us. Will we treat it with respect and the treasure it is intended to be, gifting it tenderly to the one we love? Or will we dash it across the floor and wonder why we feel all alone? The choice is up to you, it really is a big deal.